1 Peter 3:8-9
- And now
this word to all of you: You should be like one big happy family, full of
sympathy toward each other, loving one another with tender hearts and humble
minds. Don’t
repay evil for evil. Don’t snap back at those who say unkind things about you.
Instead, pray for God’s help for them, for we are to be kind to others, and God
will bless us for it.
Peter goes right to the heart of why peace
is so hard to find in our world today.
He even gives us the answer to how to achieve it. Perhaps the problem understanding
his clear advice lies more in our lack of experience with the phrases….happy
family….full of sympathy….love one another….tender hearts……. and …..humble
minds.
We lack experience because we haven’t followed
the second part of his two piece advice here.
We let the anger … bitterness…. and selfishness that satan carefully
sneaks into our hearts fester till it explodes in just exactly what Peter says
not to do. I sure am guilty of realizing too late that I have let my humbleness
and mercy escape me before I think to pray about a situation that felt unkind
to me.
The happiest families I know work hard to
stay joined in peace. They think of each
other before themselves. The goal is to
be a unified group…not 4-5 individuals that exist under one roof. They build a relationship
with each other that closes the gap satan has to sneak and destroy the hard
work they have done to shut the door on his weapons of destruction.
I know that Peter was talking ultimately
about the church…I did not miss that. But how could our churches achieve unity
when most families are falling apart in today’s world. We think it has become
easier to divorce and start over with someone that fits our personality better
than to try to follow Peter’s advice and fix what is wrong.
It is no accident that Peter tells us that
prayer is our answer. Prayer is the answer to every problem that exists. The sooner
we hit our knees…the quicker we start to shed the pride and arrogance that made
us think we had any piece of the answer without asking God first.
Father…thank you for the reminder that you
have given us the answer to peace and unity in the world. Forgive me for the times that I have prevented
peace because of my arrogance and pride.
Help me to find every seed that satan has tried to plant in my heart
that could grow into things that will prevent me from coming to you in prayer
and asking for your will. Give me added strength and courage to turn the other
cheek when I need too. Amen.