Monday, January 18, 2016

Pray For Discernment...And Learn To Use It Wisely

Genesis 43:33-34 -  The men had been seated before him in the order of their ages, from the firstborn to the youngest; and they looked at each other in astonishment.  When portions were served to them from Joseph’s table, Benjamin’s portion was five times as much as anyone else’s. So they feasted and drank freely with him.

The family of Jacob used up all the grain they had bought…but the famine continued. Jacob told them to go buy some more… in his words “a little more.” It took the persuasive powers and determination of Judah to convince Jacob that Benjamin had to go with them. After going through denial and blaming… Jacob finally relented…sending them not just with Benjamin…but gifts of spices… honey…. Balm… and nuts from the land where they lived.

Joseph welcomed them…released Simon…and prepared a feast for them at his house. His inquiries about his father’s health and seeing his blood brother again brought those healing tears back to him….so much that he had to excuse himself for them to flow until he could bring them under control.

Joseph was struggling with just how to proceed.  His emotions tried to convince him that he needed to reveal himself…to embrace them and let them know that he was not just okay…but had become just what God had prophesied in his dreams as a boy.  But Joseph held back…and decided to test them one more time…to see if their hearts had truly changed over the years.

I always thought that Benjamin received more because he was Joseph’s full brother by the same mother. But reading Matthew Henry’s commentary introduced a more Godly reason. Joseph’s brothers had admitted their wrong doing… but he was not sure that they would make better choices when faced with similar circumstances the next time. Joseph purposely placed 5 times as much food in front of Benjamin…perhaps to see if jealously was still making decisions for them. (And it won’t be the last test he gives them before revealing himself…I peeked at chapter 44.)

There are times when the spirit tells you do something…so you just do it…without thinking of logic or reasons why God asked. But there are other times that God expects you to use your faith in him and ask for wisdom to help you discern what to do. That may include a bit of questioning and testing…especially if those people have hurt you in the past. 


Father…thank you for the reminder that you can give us a spirit of discernment when we have to make important decisions that involve people.  Forgive me for the times that I have trusted too much without questioning….or trusted too little for lack of faith in you.  Give me the spirit of discernment that Joseph had… to fully test and question the things I need too before making important decisions.  Amen.

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